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This is a very interesting book specially written for those who have this negative behaviour. They often forget that the feeling of happiness or sadness is within us. Yes, Worries can surely destroy you. The only way out is to be careful, bold and be strong. It is said that worry is purely our own matter. Though it has got something to do with our external circumstances. But there are certainly some positive factors within us that keep us happy and there is something negative within us also which keep us unhappy. Happy living through positive and good thoughts, is nothing more than that of living a normal life free from undue pressures, problems and tensions. If we want to live a good and happy life then we need to get rid of the negativity within us which makes us unhappy. Negative approach always complicates the problems and increases unhappiness.
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At time we may think that there is no road is left for us from where we can achieve the happiness of our lives. We may also feel that life has become terrible for us to live and we are carrying new hope that someone would come to rescue us. There may be chances that someone who was there with us before might have held on to us when we were on the dark side of the life. We should not forget that happiness in life comes through the doors of positive thoughts; we need to have them first. If one door happen to close, another opens, in the event only when we are confident and optimistic. We have so many reasons to cry and at the same time plenty of reasons to smile as well. Similarly, happiness does not stand for anything, but is on our way of thinking that how do we keep ourselves happy in life. Failure and disappointment are part of our life. The only thing is that we need to face and solve the problem is by keeping our dreams and hope alive be it a reason that success and happiness will come our way again. he experience has taught us that we should buy some strength, hope and positivity from our loved ones to help ourselves in such a situation rather than surrendering as life is a precious gift of God and is equipped with full of joy and happiness What if when everything goes wrong and all the doors of happiness are closed our live becomes a silent. It is a quite common and we are aware of a marvelous proverb that Life itself is a stage and we all are the performers, performing different acts assigned to us by our almighty power. We should not forget as to what is in our possession if it is to fulfill our duties towards our responsibility and do whatever is correct and is allowed by us in our life?
However, despite of all these good thoughts which are embodied to us by the almighty fail to revive these unwanted circumstances that lead us to sorrow and difficulties and a situation where we do not know what is correct and good for us and what is wrong for us. We should always remember that, “Life is there, where there is hope”. That single thing that remains in our hands is to find out ways to know how to overcome these worries of our life at that very moment when all doors are closed for us which means that whatever situation is there, we must not give up hope.
We must fight because there have been always a chance that with good faith and hard work we can turn the odds in our favor. It is often said that it is very easy to advice but when it comes to us, things go out of our control and we fail to suggest a way out for ourselves. We fall into the trap of unnecessary worries and elope ourselves with negative thoughts. We feel better when somebody else is facing some difficulty but when it comes to us we fail to gather that faith, will power and the words of strength. It is a common fact that no one in this world is free of obstacles or difficulties.
If all the openings of happiness are shut for us and we have to overcome that and have no way to come out, but to survive lest we must have to learn to swim out of the sorrows because this is what is called life and sorrow free living. There are lot more examples and in many other situations, where we will find that how we could have faced and fought with our sorrows and difficulties of life when there was no hope left in our lives. When the power of will is at the worst and each one of us knows that the one who is gone never comes back.
Neither a thousands of words would not be enough to bring him back nor a million tears, because each and every moment, eyes would only shed tears , mind would remain tensed and we would be simply surrounded by worries and the life seems to have been vanished.
Life is ever expanding, contraction is death. As commonly said by big saints that the self- seeking man who is looking after his personal comforts and leading a lazy life for himself there would be no room for him even in the hell and he simply have lost the power of his will. We are quite aware of the fact that faith in oneself is the history of a man and that faith calls the quality of superiority within a person. One cannot do anything without it. We fail only when we do not try very hard to achieve the power and faith within us. As soon as we lose faith, death comes in our way and we are surrounds by all the evils and stupid worries of the world.
The secret and history of every successful man is to have, good confidence, faith and strength behind him and that remain the right cause of his single success in life. Unselfishness plays a very vital role in his life. He may not have been perfectly unselfish, yet he was tending towards it. If he had been perfectly unselfish, he would have been as great a success. The degree of unselfishness marks the degree of success everywhere and he leads to be successful man without fear worries selfishness. and good memory which is the basis of our interest, power of desire and aim, keeping ourselves smiling and the doubt free character which is the foremost important reason for a successful and happy life. If we possess one solid unselfish and doubt free character within ourselves we would be quite happy and successful. The love for God and worshipping God adds to one common thing the immense faith in Him.
There may be different beliefs and ways to worship God in different communities, places and religions, but one thing remains the same and that is the Love of God for all of us. Our world is full of odds and evens, happiness and sorrows, fulfilment and emptiness. And these are all created by the Almighty. However, the most beautiful Gift of God, is Human, which is such a mystery driven by Him which could hardly be defined or explained in depth. We know that life cannot be foreseen. Life is not a bed of roses. Life is a battle field and not a bed of roses as every man on earth has to struggle very hard in making his life happy.
If aim of our life is to stay happy and let others to be happy, we will be happy and remembered by all. But no one will actually remember us for the wealth we have gained, or success we have achieved. I have no aim in life. Summary living with no purpose in life is just like a feather moving towards the wind. Both career and purpose are different issues but it is equally important to understand the value of these things which would ultimately add spicy flavor to your living. Innovation at work place is what it necessary is how well we judge our work, how good we like and enjoy it. If we take our work as a stiff challenge and as learning every day then we would start loving it and giving our best. However, if we just work for the sake of then nothing is realized and we do not remain happy in life. Life is such a special gift of Almighty and it is not gifted by Him to use it the way we like or love to. The actual path shown by Him needs to be followed by us for us to reach the peak of betterment every moment. We need to have some positive attitude to look at it comfortably but at the same time having a positive mental attitude does not mean banishing all negative thoughts and people from your life. The same is true with thoughts. When we go to field with negative thoughts, we banish one and another one arises.
Therefore creation of positivity in life is utmost necessary to enjoy the special gift of God to us. Now let’s us imagine that we are not feeling at our best today, and we are having thoughts that could be classified as negative. We shouldn’t be thinking such negative thoughts. We don’t like the negative thoughts. We ought to know that negative thoughts are stressful, demoralizing and depressing. We shouldn’t aim to have negative thoughts at all. Often we feel uncomfortable because we think we have to say or do something in response to another person’s words. When we find ourselves thinking this way, it helps enormously to take a few moments to check inside and notice what we are feeling. We are deeply depressed that negativity has governed us and has taken a deep root in our minds…..